We suggest that you call us, keep his or her name confidential and private; don’t tell us the name. However, we can work with you to figure out a strategy to help this buddy in distress. It is important to “guard” your buddies. Call us and let’s discuss what is going on, what you are seeing, and how we can work together to send a life line to your buddy while protecting privacy and confidentiality. Keeping things silent can be dangerous, especially if you see serious signs of depression or sadness in a buddy at the Guard.